AJ Update

My decision not to send AJ to school this year is already final. I might be having some second thoughts now but I am sticking to what I have already decided. Here's why:

1. She's just 3 years old. Pwede na sana for Nursery but she's still 3 years old. I believe it's bit early pa rin. Baka maaaga siyang magsawa.

2. We might be moving to our new house at the end of the year (hopefully),

3. I will find it hard to budget her tuition fees, baon with all the "incidental charges" to pay plus the renovations to be made prior to "moving-in" to our new house.

4. Most importantly, If i insist on enrolling her this year, she will be on adjustment period again next year when it's time to enroll her to another school in cavite. It may or may not be traumatic for her but I'm not going to take the risk.

All these reasons tells me na both AJ and I are not ready yet. She can still learn the basics pa rin naman, and besides, I can always find time to teach her in the evenings or during our quiet times together.

House Update uli

I'm really disappointed with the Prosperity Builders. I have done my best to comply with all their documentary requirements, I have already finished paying the Dp eons ago and now i am currently paying for the MA (not to pag-ibig mind you, but to Prosperity Builders), MA as in computed na with the "supposed" interest for 30 years na payable na dapat sa pag-ibig, but because they are so keen on putting up a big "GREEDY" sign on their foreheads - the MA has to be payable to them. I have paid them in PDC's until Sept 23 (I have already given them 10 checks). And now they are calling me because they have just found out that my husband's ID is no longer valid and the other valid ID (passport) has no signature. As in! How incompetent could they get? They should have been the first people to KNOW their requirements and I believe it should have been checked the very moment that the requirements are passed into their hands. It's been two weeks already since I have passed my MSVS to them (2nd MSVS actually since i underwent pag-ibig orientation AGAIN kasi medyo matagal na raw yung first orientation ko w/c happened april 2010). Di ba? sana thoroughly checked na nila yun! Grrr! They say they are Prosperity Builders, but the way they are treating their buyers isn't really "prosperous" at all.

Apache Wedding Prayer

Now you will feel no rain,
For each of you will be shelter to the other.
Now you will feel no cold,
For each of you will be warmth to the other.
Now there is no more loneliness,
For each of you will be companion to the other.
Now you are two bodies,
But there is one life before you.
Go now to your dwelling place,
To enter into the days of your togetherness.
And may your days be good and long upon the earth.


I used this Indian Wedding Blessing on the invitation I made on our wedding day. It is so simple and yet it spoke for our relationship as husband and wife. Now, I searched this via wikipedia and found out that it was actually written in the 1950 Western novel Blood Brother (novel) by Elliott Arnold. So it's not actually a Native American tradition (sigh! i really hoped it did), but it's kind of romantic don't you think?

hohummm...

I haven't been able to blog for a while. Actually, I haven't been to cyberspace for a whole lot of "while", I haven't EVEN been able to visit my fb or my e-mail account. Bahay-Office...dun umikot ang mundo ko. But no complaints here. It's more on deciding which of these matters most. Like deciding that playing with my daughter Aliyah is more fun than bothering to post any status in my fb account or spending time trying to think what to blog. Time flies fast and we have to keep up with it. My daughter grows up (a little) each day and I don't want to miss any moment of it. And she will never be 3 years old again. And perhaps, if God permits, she'll be an Ate. Hindi na siya mag-iisa. And she won't be able to enjoy being the only child again. So, i am making it a point that we enjoy each others company as often as possible. Kasi, We'll never know....